No strings attached.

I never heard of these words, until few years ago. What are the strings? and why ain’t they meant to be attached? The society looks pale now, when it comes to commitments, successful marriages and strong friendships. The fact, I am writing is the full proof, that there’s no one around for me to speak off this weirdness oozing out. The movie whose title too, was same as above, starring Ashton Kutcher and Natalie Portman, the characters fell in love at last. We constantly being told through social media, be on your own, don’t trust anyone, be strong emotionally, If you feel the relationships are not working, please walk out, There’s another word ” Narcism” sailing all through. A patterned behaviour which is to be diagnosed by an expert, is blabbered by every second person. So where are we heading???? Should we not make new friends, while holding on to old pals?? Or Should we just cocoon ourselves from the vulnerability.

My vocab, got augmented to bread-crumbing, ghosting, benching, pocketing, hot and cold, zombie-ing, cushioning. You all are requested to google this. But, for me it certainly turned out as an eye opener of where have we reached. A twenty years of marital experience and this drastic change around me, is truly gobsmacking. You wan’t something desperately, but you are not confident enough to stand for it, you repeatedly say, ” I love you”, without knowing the profundity and acid tests one has to go through it. You have coitus multiple times, but still don’t want to give it a name. People constantly seeking validation, emotional security from the people who already are in void of everything you are looking for it. Strange, vexing and hard to take on.

I leave it upto you, whosoever is reading, Is the upcoming generation not missing on to something which is pure and worth fighting for??? No heart!!! and No emotions!!!! Society needs lucidity…